DraftFatherhood & Identity
The Difference Between Being Present and Being Available
You can be home every evening and still be somewhere else. What children ask for is rarely more time. It is a different quality of attention.
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Fatherhood & Identity
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Nobody hands us a manual, so we improvise from the only script we have: the home we grew up in. Some of that inheritance is gold. Some of it is weight. Telling them apart is slow, honest work.