DraftFatherhood & Identity
Breaking the Patterns We Inherit From Our Fathers
The sentences that come out of my mouth sometimes arrive in my father's voice. Some of them I keep. Some of them end with me. That sorting is the work.
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Fatherhood & Identity
Draft: full article in progress

I have lost count of the evenings I was technically home. Body in the kitchen, mind somewhere in tomorrow. My kids knew the difference long before I did.
This article is where I want to untangle two words we use as if they were the same: presence and availability. They are not. One is a location. The other is a posture.